In relating to yourself, your partner/friends and Life itself, what is your focus?

Are you focusing on what is NOT working?
Or are you focusing on what IS working?

In a way, it's easier to focus on what is not there because it lives so strongly in the collective, and for many people it became a strong habit. Yet, no matter how well you name or analyse what you are missing, it doesn't seem to improve.

It's because we attract into our life only things that are vibrating on the same frequency as we ARE. And when we focus on what we do NOT have, we keep attracting NOT having it.

The biggest GIFT in relating to anyone or anything is Appreciation.
What do you appreciate yourself for?
What do you appreciate your partner for?
What IS working in your relationship(s)?
What do you love about living this Life?

Express it to yourself, your partner/friends and Life itself. The frequency of your vibration automatically rises, and you start attracting/seeing things in your life that are matching this higher frequency of APPRECIATION.

If you are in a relationship, take your partner by the hand and share with them what you appreciate about them and what you appreciate about your relationship. Ask them to share with you what they appreciate about you and about your relationship too. And keep your daily focus there.💓

"Yes, but what to do if he touches me not in the way I like it?" you may ask.
Then you focus your appreciation on the sole fact that he DOES touch you, that he at least does the effort to touch you in the way he can at the moment.

And if you are not in a relationship and you desire one, write down exactly what you desire and then appreciate life for the possibility to match your desire with the person being somewhere out there.

Of course, it doesn't mean that you will never voice THAT which is not working for you. The invitation here is simply to SHIFT the daily focus towards Appreciation and see what becomes possible in this vibration.